I have to admit: the answer to this is quite easy for me. I’d definitely rather go to a big metropolis than an abandoned village in the middle of nowhere, even if that nowhere has sunshine 365 days a year and a stunning beach. The crucial point is the time span. 5 years is an aweful long time. If I think about what happened and changed in the last 5 years of my life I only realise how incredibly long that actually is. In 5 years I studied 3 different majors in 3 different universities and graduated lately from one of them. I moved cities 3 times and flats 4 times. I went to a different country to live there for a while, I sang in 2 different bands, had 6 different jobs and made so, so, so, so many friends and business contacts in that time. I could go on and on and on but I think you get the gist.
So, yes, living on an island or an isolated town at the California coast can be absolutely fantastic, relaxing and maybe even inspiring. But I cannot imagine myself being there for a time frame as long as 5 years. I need the action, the buzz, the cultural variety, the many different people and mentalities, the shops and cafés, restaurants and bars that an urban mecca like NYC has to offer. And to be honest: for me personally the place I’m talking about must not necessarily be New York City – I really enjoyed being there during the two visits I spent so far, but any other bigger city that has a lot going on and still may not be as packed as NYC would also work very well for me.
By the way if you’re seeking for a mid-sized city that still gives the feeling of an urban metropolis, I can recommend checking out Dublin! And – unlike other countries that I don’t wanna name now – the Irish even have great beer… what else could you ever want? 😉